Understand yourself
Recognise what matters to you, what you bring to the relationship and the patterns you can fall into under pressure.
Enneagram couples testUnderstand the person
Understand the person
you love.
You can love each other and still struggle to understand each other. Discover what drives you both, where you connect and why the same disagreements keep coming round.
An Enneagram personality test for each of you, brought together in a personalised relationship report.
£48 per couple
One payment. Two individual reports. One shared couples report.
Complete separately, in your own time. Your individual answers stay private.
Explore both your personality typesUnderstand your relationship patternsFind practical ways to connect
A different way into the same old conversation.
The Enneagram looks beneath behaviour to the motivations, fears and needs that shape it. Our couples test helps you explore how those patterns meet in your relationship, with language you can actually use together.
See their perspective
Explore why your partner may respond differently to you, and what helps them feel understood and supported.
Change the conversation
Use practical reflections to talk about your differences with more curiosity, clearer requests and less blame.
What your £48 includesTwo perspectives.
Two perspectives.
One relationship.
- Your individual report: your core type, wing, strengths and patterns for growth.
- Your partner’s individual report: their own insights, delivered privately to them.
- Your shared couples report: the strengths and friction points of your particular pairing.
- Practical relationship guidance: what you each bring and need, with ways to get the best out of each other.
Reports delivered by email. Individual reports are yours to share if you choose.
Your own space to reflect.
Something to explore together.
- 01 / Register together
Add both your details
Enter both names and email addresses, then complete the £48 payment through Stripe. Make sure your partner agrees to receive an invitation.
- 02 / Complete separately
Take your own test
You each receive a private assessment link by email. Answer independently, in your own time. Your personal report is emailed when you finish.
- 03 / Explore together
Receive your couples report
Once both assessments are complete, the joint relationship report is emailed to both of you. Read it together and choose one conversation to begin with.
Who it is for
You don’t need to be in crisis to be curious.
Whether you are dating, married or have been together for years, this Enneagram couples test offers a starting point for understanding your differences.
- You keep getting caught in the same disagreement.
- You want to understand what helps each of you feel connected.
- You enjoy exploring your relationship and want to go a little deeper.
It is a tool for reflection, rather than a diagnosis or a replacement for couples therapy. No personality pairing determines whether a relationship will work.
Your questions, answered.
What is an Enneagram couples test?
It brings together two individual Enneagram assessments to explore your relationship. Each person completes their own personality test, then DGL Revelation creates a joint report about the strengths, differences and potential friction points of your pairing.
Do we take the test together?
You register as a couple, but complete your assessments separately using your own private email links. Answer for yourself rather than discussing which answer your partner thinks you should choose. You can read the couples report together afterwards.
What is included in the £48 price?
One payment covers both assessments, one individual report for each partner and a shared couples report. Your personal report is emailed when you finish; the joint report follows once both of you have completed your assessments.
Can my partner see my answers or individual report?
No. Your raw answers and individual report are not automatically shared with your partner. You each receive your own report privately. The couples report is shared with both of you, so it includes insights about both personality types. You choose whether to share your individual report.
What if one of us finishes first?
The person who finishes first receives their individual report without waiting. The joint couples report is sent to both partners once both assessments are complete.
Will it tell us whether we are compatible?
There is no pass or fail, and no type pairing is a verdict on your future. The report explores how your different motivations and responses may interact, so you have more understanding to bring to the relationship.
Do we need to know our Enneagram types already?
No. You each take an Enneagram test as part of the process. If you would like to explore the framework first, read our guides to the nine Enneagram types.
Can I take a test on my own?
Yes. Our individual Enneagram personality test is £9.98 and provides your own personalised report. The couples option adds your partner’s assessment and the shared relationship report.
DGL Revelation
Make room for a little more understanding.
Start with yourself. Get curious about each other.
£48 per couple
Two individual reports and one shared couples report.
Register both partners, pay securely through Stripe and receive your private test links by email.